okay tbh the most exhausting thing about being a feminist is when one of your dude friends goes “are you a feminist?” for w/e reason and you’re like “yeh” & they take that as an invitation to debate you on every tired argument they’ve ever heard on 4chan
like please stop making my existence a debate, i’m just trying to eat this take-out and watch re-runs of project runway
"what will your kids think of that tattoo?"
my kids aren’t going to give 2 shits because i’m not going to raise them to be a judgmental asshole like your parents did
i’m just going to reblog this over and over again until i give myself carpal tunnel
In Bob We Trust!!
I met this twerking, albino Raven named Pearl today. It is only one of four known albino Ravens in the whole world.
Pearl lives in this woman’s house. The handler has a permit, and the bird is property of the government (like hawks and falcons). She is affiliated with the California Wildlife Center. Every time the handler stopped petting Pearl she started cawing. She really likes affection.
ambedo n. a kind of melancholic trance in which you become completely absorbed in vivid sensory details—raindrops skittering down a window, tall trees leaning in the wind, clouds of cream swirling in your coffee—which leads to a dawning awareness of the haunting fragility of life
D - If I have a preference for boys or girls: This is always a complicated question, because I need to differentiate people I have feelings towards and people I have a sexual attraction towards. Strangely enough, I tend to be emotionally attracted to girls, and sexually attracted to boys, if that even means something. I don’t identify as boy or girl, and I don’t really identify others as boys or girls. I have a preference for people. I think, ultimately, I have a preference for queer people, as they tend to understand better my view of things and my inner struggles. But it always depends, in the end, on the person.
I - The last time I felt jealous, and why: I am a very jealous person. I mean, envious, more than jealous, if you can see a difference. I’m feeling a bit jealous or envious every day, but the last time I really felt jealous was last week-end. I was a my best friend’s house-warming party, and his boyfriend was there. I spent the beginning of the “party” just with them, and even if I adore them and they were very sweet and nice and fun, I couldn’t prevent myself from being jealous. They were together, they could touch, kiss, joke around, and even have sex and share all those wonderful moments together, when I couldn’t, because an ocean and an entire continent lay between me and my love. But as with every feeling, you learn how to cope, process and live with it.
N - If you want to know how I treat my friends: It obviously depends on the friends. You should ask them, instead of asking me, as I cannot really be objective. I’m gonna try my best. I think I treat my friends well and I always try to communicate a lot, so there are no misunderstanding of any sorts. However, I can end up being quite brutally honest, because I hate keeping things for myself as I tend to think they get bigger than they are if they are not expressed. If I have a problem, I am going to tell my friends, with no intention of hurting them, but sometimes with the result of hurting them. I just usually feel I don’t have enough energy to enter complicated games or strategies to make them understand what I mean or feel without saying it abruptly.